Sunday Stills; My Way ← In this post I tell how “My photos are not primarily OF windows. They are mostly FROM windows. My home office window, car windows, hotel windows, plane windows.
The windows I want to talk about today, are the windows of our hearts; the windows of our minds; and the windows of our perceptions.
It all started when I happened across a TED Talk – called “The Price of Shame” – by Monica Lewinsky – from March 20, 2015.
She spoke about humiliation, shame, cyber bullying, public shaming, and online harassment.
She quoted Brene’ Brown saying that “Shame cannot survive empathy.”
We have freedom of expression, but also responsibility of that freedom.
Might our harsh words cause the demise of another?
Let’s face it, myself, and many others I am quite sure, heard Monica’s story while it was going on, and thought what a horrible person she must be, as well as the one she was involved with.
Did we consider her with compassion? Did we think of her as young and naive? Did we consider that she may have been being taken advantage of by another? Did we think of her as Someone’s Daughter?
Maybe for a moment, but the mainstream media of the day made it very easy to characterize her as a floozy; or many other names that she goes over in her talk.
Her stand in her talk was that we need to communicate, consume, and click with compassion.
We must take back our own narrative, and help others currently in that position.
As a child, I was bullied a lot. Every day.
I somehow knew (not in my head and not until much later) on a visceral level, that I was being protected.
I simply cannot imagine how much more infinitely difficult it is during THIS time period.
What with social media and TV media and print media all screaming insults and vitriol all over the place for no reason, and hardly any basis in fact.
So I ask you now to consider your own “Windows on the World”. (Heart, mind, perceptions)
- Are you communicating your thoughts with compassion?
- Are you consuming your media with compassion?
- Are you clicking with compassion? (Clicking usually = dollars)
- Are you listening to EACH side, or only the one you like?
Along with the link to Monica’s story above, I’ve added a few more links.
Perhaps they can help you to begin your search for your OWN WAY to do things with more compassion.
We do not need to agree on everything; in fact, we can disagree completely with another’s world view, and still listen to them, and treat them with compassion.
If we use compassion, we can have some really good conversation, and who knows: maybe everybody can learn something.
Matthew 9:36 When he saw the crowds, he had compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.