I spent the first twenty years of my life convincing myself that I was not afraid of anything.
Of anything.
Normal kid stuff like the dark, bee stings or dog bites, to more adultish things like, love, and loss, and pain.
What I found out later in life, (remember I had convinced myself that I was not afraid) was that I was afraid of literally everything.
I spent much of my adult life, learning how to allow Jesus to RELEASE me from fear.
I spent much of my adult life learning how to lean on HIS knowledge of things and not my own.
I spent much of my older adult life LEAVING my fear in HIS care.
I came to realize that we did not BOTH need to be awake at night.
The fear I had possessed all my life, was gone, or, as I’m finding out, effectively quieted down.
In the past several years, since social media anyway, things have changed.
People can put out any thing they want to, true or not, and strike fear into an entire people group, and now, with COVID19, the entire world.
The social media, and the main stream media both spout their ideas as fact to a world that is basically uninformed of history, partnered with a lack of ability to discern right from wrong, swallows it up hook, line, and sinker.
Thereby tossing them even further into the pit of fear and despair.
Even those who are discerning, can get caught up in the trap as well.
Anything that we are told over, and over, and over, tends to become truth to us.
Incrementally. A little at a time.
So we don’t even notice until fear has it’s grip on us yet again.
What I thought I had overcome, keeps trying to come back.
Not the little girl stuff. The grown up stuff.
It seems like the thing that gives me the most FEAR, is loss.
Loss of family, loss of things that were hard fought to have.
Loss of love, health, safety, and most of all freedom.
Isaiah 41:10 says “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
And in Isaiah 35:4 it says “Say to those who have an anxious heart, “Be strong; fear not! Behold, your God will come with vengeance, with the recompense of God. He will come and save you.”
Psalm 91:4 says “He will cover you with his pinions, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness is a shield and buckler.
The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life; of whom shall I be afraid? Psalm 27:1
A couple of keys here; You have to believe it’s true.
So we see that they were unable to enter because ofunbelief. Hebrews 3:19
And he did not do many mighty works there, because of their unbelief. Matthew 13:58
While he was still speaking, there came from the ruler’s house some who said, “Your daughter is dead. Why trouble the Teacher any further?” But overhearing what they said, Jesus said to the ruler of the synagogue, “Do not fear, only believe.” Matthew 5:35-36
A post to encourage people in their faith, and help the to begin their days with a positive thought.
It is not a post that I have written; it is a word that I copy and paste from another lady.
Over the last several years, I have found her words to be quite timely and accurate.
After writing this yesterday, here is what came up this morning.
June 3, 2020: You must find rest and peace in My presence. It is the only place of peace that is acquired beyond your thoughts and feelings. It is the peace that comes with divine perception and spiritual truth where goodness is found. But you need to come. Refuse to live in turmoil and confusion and seek Me with all your heart. John 14:27 “Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.” SMALL STRAWS IN A SOFT WIND by Marsha Burns
During these days of isolation; some are doing well.
Others, not so much.
Even those of us who enjoy the solitary space are beginning to get a little edgy.
In the Old Testament during the times of David, he similarly had feelings of being left alone in a difficult spot.
It was then that he cried out to God.
Maybe you have cried out something like this yourself.
How Long, O Lord?
13 How long, O Lord? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me? 2 How long must I take counsel in my soul and have sorrow in my heart all the day? How long shall my enemy be exalted over me?
3 Consider and answer me, O Lord my God; light up my eyes, lest I sleep the sleep of death, 4 lest my enemy say, “I have prevailed over him,” lest my foes rejoice because I am shaken.
5But I have trusted in your steadfast love; my heart shall rejoice in your salvation. 6 I will sing to the Lord, because he has dealt bountifully with me.
Psalm 13 (ESV)
David took on a course of action.
He made some choices.
He prayed yet again;
You Will Not Abandon My Soul
16 Preserve me, O God, for in you I take refuge. 2 I say to the Lord, “You are my Lord; I have no good apart from you.”
3 As for the saints in the land, they are the excellent ones, in whom is all my delight.
4 The sorrows of those who run after another god shall multiply; their drink offerings of blood I will not pour out or take their names on my lips.
5 The Lord is my chosen portion and my cup; you hold my lot. 6 The lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; indeed, I have a beautiful inheritance.
7I bless the Lord who gives me counsel; in the night also my heart instructs me. 8 I have set the Lord always before me; because he is at my right hand, I shall not be shaken.
9 Therefore my heart is glad, and my whole being rejoices; my flesh also dwells secure. 10 For you will not abandon my soul to Sheol, or let your holy one see corruption.
11 You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.
Psalm 16 (ESV)
Regardless of our circumstances we can make decisions that will cause are hearts to be glad, even when times are difficult.
Sometimes dreams don’t come true. The best of plans unravel and life takes you on an unwanted detour.
For Benjamin Foster, that detour led straight to the Barstow County Correctional Center. As most prisoners know, “correctional center” is just a softer word for “prison.”
Benjamin used to be a good kid. He played little league and was a decent student. He loved computers and drawing and dreamed of becoming a video game designer.
But things changed. His Dad ran off with his secretary. After his parents divorced, Benjamin lived with his mother. Dad infrequently visited and Mom had to work more to make ends meet.
Idle hands are the devil’s workshop
Benjamin used to walk home after school and usually had the house to himself. He’d try to get his homework done but often got distracted with television and doodling.
Then one day after school he ran into Sid, a fellow high school student who lived in the neighborhood. Soon the two were inseparable. It wasn’t long before Sid introduced Benjamin to alcohol and marijuana.
Benjamin’s grades began to slip and arguments ensued with his mother. She lacked the support needed to raise Benjamin.
Marijuana and alcohol led to mushrooms, LSD, rave parties and then methamphetamine. Benjamin’s life was quickly unraveling.
They say idle hands are the devil’s workshop. If that’s true, then methamphetamine is the fuel that powers the devil’s workshop. Benjamin’s addiction to meth led to shoplifting, burglary, and crime.
Benjamin’s mother was at her wit’s end. Her son had been in and out of Juvenile Hall and even participated in a substance abuse program. But it was all to no avail.
In his early twenties, Benjamin worked part-time at a car wash. The perfect place to deal drugs. Until he got ripped off by some dangerous clients and ended up owing money to his suppliers.
The bank robbery was supposed to be the answer to Benjamin’s predicament. How could he know two off duty cops would be in the bank that day.
The court process played out and Benjamin’s public defender did what she could. In his favor was the fact that Benjamin hadn’t used a gun (only pretended to have one) and didn’t hurt anyone.
Benjamin’s mother cried at sentencing and when her son was escorted out of the courtroom in chains. He was sent to Barstow County Correctional Center. He was no longer Benjamin Foster.
He was now Inmate 27409.
Meeting Rembrandt
Prison frightened Benjamin. Everywhere there were hardened men with tattoos, built-up bodies and hidden alliances.
The prison noise was relentless. Alarms, slamming doors, arguments, buzzers, screams and yelling. A concrete hell.
Navigating this new world required effort, luck, observation, bartering and time. Unfortunately, his four-year sentence provided plenty of time.
Benjamin sought jobs that helped him stay out of trouble and pass the time. His favorite job was working in the prison library.
Years later, he would reflect that the job in the library probably saved his life. Because that’s where he met “Rembrandt.”
Benjamin’s first encounter with Rembrandt was near the rear of the prison library. It was there that Benjamin found this seventy-two-year-old inmate, seated at a desk with several art books opened around him. Also on the desk was a sketchbook filled with amazing pencil drawings.
Benjamin struck up a conversation with the old man and learned that everyone called him “Rembrandt.”
“It’s funny because I don’t even paint,” Rembrandt told Benjamin. “The prison budget cut back on paints, so all I’ve got are sketchbooks and pencils!”
“Yeah, but those drawings are amazing,” Benjamin offered.
“I like to copy from the masters. John Singer Sargent. Caravaggio. You can learn so much from these old artists,” Rembrandt said.
Old letters and regrets
It wasn’t long before Benjamin and Rembrandt struck up a friendship. Rembrandt was sort of like a father to Benjamin. Especially since Benjamin never heard from his deadbeat Dad.
“I told you about my robbery, but I don’t think you told me your story?” Benjamin cautiously asked Rembrandt one day in the exercise yard.
“Murder. I caught my wife having an affair with a coworker. I suspected it for some time. But then one day I found her car parked at a motel.” Rembrandt shook his head.
“That’s terrible. I’m sorry.” It was all Benjamin could think to say.
“Back then I was an alcoholic. I was drunk. I kicked in the motel door and lunged at the dude. We fought. He fell, I grabbed this marble statuette in the room and bashed it on the guy’s skull. Killed him instantly.”
Rembrandt looked at Benjamin and added, “And that was that. The prosecution said it was premeditated. I got 30 years. My wife left me. I had a grown daughter, Sarah, but I lost her too.” Rembrandt swallowed hard.
“I’m sorry. What happened to Sarah?” Benjamin asked.
“Oh, mostly time and disappointment, I guess. She used to visit every other month and tell me about life back home. But then she’d just write. For a while, anyway. Now she’s down to only Christmas cards.”
Rembrandt sat on the yard bench beside Benjamin and looked him directly in the eyes. “Benjamin, it’s okay. I’m at peace with it all now. I may only have old letters and regrets left of my family, but they have their own lives to live. I have my art and faith in God.”
“I wish I could get where you are, Rembrandt. I used to have dreams, but I’m stuck here for three more years,” Benjamin said.
“Well, Benjamin, if you’d like, I’ll share with you some hard-earned prison wisdom. I’ve come up with five life strategies that work both inside and outside prison. I think they can help you.” Rembrandt smiled at Benjamin.
“I can use all the help I can get,” Benjamin said.
Prison wisdom
The next day in the prison library Rembrandt opened up a notebook in front of Benjamin. On the page Rembrandt had written his five life strategies:
Let go
Forgive yourself
Own it
Emotional maturity
Give thanks
As Benjamin gazed at the list, Rembrandt spoke. “When I got to prison I started to notice something. All the newbies were tense, nervous, angry. You could see it on their faces. They were grappling with fear, but more than that. They realized all the things they lost on the outside. Affection, status, approval.”
“Yeah, that hit me too,” Benjamin said.
“What happens in prison is that we build mental toughness to survive. Our worlds shrink to television, exercise, reading, maybe chess. But over time we realize we never had much control over our lives. Even on the outside.We learn to let go. The guys in here that learn to let go, they’re relaxed. They smile more. Letting go and acceptance can be freeing.”
Rembrandt pointed at his list and said, “Number two is forgiveness. For yourself and others. If we keep blaming ourselves and others, it’s like emotional quicksand. It will consume us. Forgiveness opens the door to personal growth.”
“Third is learning to own your own life. Too many people blame everyone else. Most of our lives reflect our own choices. Yet people constantly deny this. They blame their spouses, children, parents, bosses.”
“Yeah, I’m guilty of that one,” Benjamin said. “I still blame my Dad.”
“Your father has his own demons,” Rembrandt said. “You know why I love the library? It’s not just art books. I like to read the classics. All the stuff I should have read when I was young. Greater minds than ours have left wisdom on how to live life, but we’re too busy being petty and superficial to go deeper.”
Rembrandt returned to the list. “Fourth on the list is emotional maturity.How I wish I understood this years ago. Emotional maturity means not making excuses for yourself, taking responsibility and avoiding the shortcuts in life.”
“And last but not least,” Benjamin said as he read number five, “Give thanks.”
Rembrandt closed the notebook and said, “Yep, gratitude is frequently forgotten. We grouse about everything. The food. Traffic. Our lousy bosses. We complain with such indignation. Well, how would your petty complaints sound to some guy in the terminal cancer ward? Or to a couple who just lost a child in an accident? Learn to give thanks for your health, your life and talents.”
Benjamin put his hand on Rembrandt’s shoulder and said, “Thank you, my friend.”
The angels closed their eyes
In his remaining years at Barstow Correctional Center, Benjamin adopted Rembrandt’s five life strategies. He studied daily in the library, consuming classic books. He began a course of study in computer science and design.
Rembrandt passed away six months before Benjamin’s release from prison. Benjamin mourned his friend’s death but felt a deep sense of gratitude for all Rembrandt taught him.
Benjamin wrote letters to people he hurt in his life. He wrote to his father to forgive him. He wrote to Sid and shared Rembrandt’s wisdom. He even wrote to Sarah, Rembrandt’s daughter, to tell her who her father became.
As Benjamin signed the forms and changed into civilian clothing, he said a quiet prayer of thanks to Rembrandt.
In the prison parking lot, Benjamin’s mother said a prayer of her own. A prayer of hope, that Benjamin had changed. A prayer for the future.
As Benjamin and his mother drove out of the parking lot, the angels closed their eyes. They said a prayer of thanks and redemption for the prisoner, Rembrandt. For in saving the life of Benjamin, Rembrandt had saved his own soul.
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