The last post I posted in 2019 was about three things that I have put on high priority for the year 2020 and beyond. Year End Ponderings
- Helping people
Notice. This word keeps coming back to my mind. Notice.
The official definition of the word was much more involved than I first thought.; Written announcement – Warning – Attention – Review – Observe – Perceive – Mention – Recognize – Discern – Detect.
Oh my goodness.
So much more than I thought, so much more than meets the eye.
So where do I want to go with this.
My original idea was to just NOTICE what is around me.
Hmm. I’m still there, but there has to be more, just by virtue of the scope of the definitions.
The words that are most directly connected to my own thoughts on the word NOTICE, are the following; PERCEIVE, RECOGNIZE, OBSERVE, DISCERN.
*When I was growing up, I had very little if any ideas of my own.
I’m not sure I NOTICED much.
I did only what was expected (barely) and what I was told (I was afraid not to).
I was taught WHAT to think, not HOW to think.
When I had children of my own, a new PERCEPTION began to rise in me.
I RECOGNIZED that I actually had choices that I could make for myself, and I also RECOGNIZED that I could teach my children the value of making good choices.
(To this day, I can hear my daughter, sending her teenagers off to school, calling out – “Make good choices!)
Later on, I began journaling while I was reading my Bible.
Much of that was simply about what I NOTICED in my Bible.
It began simply by writing out, word for word what I was reading, if it made sense to me.
Eventually, I was able to begin OBSERVING I was having some thoughts about what I was reading.
I was RECOGNIZING how God’s word could apply to my life.
So my journaling began to look a little differently.
The bullet point OBSERVATIONS became more like real sentences.
Real sentences became more like real paragraphs.
And low and behold, I OBSERVED that I could help people with my words.
So those words turned into a blog.
A blog in 2012 that was very different from one in 2019 and beyond.
Here is where some DISCERNING came in.
DISCERNING what is needed, what to share, what will be the most helpful to the person out there searching.
I began to NOTICE along the way, that there are folks who need to be loved, honored, taught, and yes, NOTICED.
And I am happy that I can be capable of some of that.
*These are some of the same things I NOTICED when I began just taking photos on my phone a few years back.
I PERCEIVED that there is a lot of beauty out there that others never get to see.
I RECOGNIZED that all my years I have been a lover of sky watching, far away landscapes, and enjoying beauty in general.
I RECOGNIZED that by photographing things, I could lift my own mood, so DISCERNMENT came in right here too; why not use that enjoyment to help lift the moods of others.
The fact that a photographer often OBSERVES things in a different way than the general public looks strange to some, but for real, it is a gift to those who do not possess it.
It is just one of the myriad ways to help bring peace to an upset countenance.
*Finally, with the same process, I PERCEIVED that through all of my life, I’ve been able to RECOGNIZE those around me who have been somehow traumatized in their lives.
Not all have been able to find the way to mental or physical health.
DISCERNMENT helped me to NOTICE/REALIZE that not all PTSD is combat related.
I learned through study, that it can also be caused by multiple kinds of trauma; mental trauma, sexual trauma, trauma from an accident or loss, or a host of other things.
There is no end to the things that cause harm to people.
Just because you can’t see it, doesn’t mean it’s not there.
I OBSERVED that sharing my story, in whole or in part, can help some to find a step to begin on, and even a soft place to land, when things don’t turn out the way they should.
I can indeed be a “basket holder” while their pieces are flying off (because they will fly off).
When they stop flying, I can help in some way to put their pieces back together again.
DISCERNING when, where, and how, is a gift, and it can be PERCEIVED if I am quiet enough.
In Isaiah 54 the Bible speaks of the Covenant that God makes with those that love Him.
My favorite verse is #17a KJV – No weapon that is formed against you shall prosper.
It does not say there will be no weapon – like depression and sadness, or trauma and PTSD, bad physical or mental health – it says they will not prosper.
Until next time.
Isn’t it amazing how much we *still* have to discover when we are already having our own kids!? I came out of so many shells at that point in so many situations and also finally started to assert my place with my father as an adult. You open your eyes and realize you have free will, free thought…and, in my case, that I could begin a self esteem rebuild!
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There is always so much more to learn, and it’s so much easier when your self esteem is in place!
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